One of my favorite TV shows is Keeping Up Appearances, a British comedy produced in the early 1990’s. The star of the show is Hyacinth Bucket, pronounced “bouquet,” a determined, snobbish middle-class woman who desperately attempts to climb the social ladder despite her middle-class underpinnings. In her mission to appear cultured and civilize the socially “less fortunate” she makes critical judgments of others and attempts to control their behavior.
The TV show is a comedic gem, because it’s obvious to viewers that Hyacinth doesn’t realize her obsession leads to unpleasant outcomes and prevents her from enjoying the good family and friends surrounding her. But opportunities for improvement in our own lives may not be so apparent and sometimes go unrecognized.